Signs of Cheating

Unfortunately cheating has become a very common in our society with over 50% of marriages ending in divorce.  Nobody want's to be cheated on and it's probably the worst feeling in the world to find out.  In this hub were going to cover some of the common signs of cheating to look out for when you suspect infidelity in your relationship.

1. There is a complete attitude change

This is number one for a reason.  A change in your partners attitude can be a tell tale sign of cheating.  Take a moment to assess the relationship - was your partner happy for a while and then suddenly their mood did a complete 180?  This is far from catching somebody in the act, but it is a sign that you should dig a little deeper.

2.  There is a change in his or her priorities

At one time were you the center of attention for your spouse?  Have things recently changed and are causing you to second guess your current relationship?  A change in priorities often signifies a new plan or agenda of the person.  In some cases, it could be spending time with someone other than you.  Take not of your partners priorities.

3.  There is no longer intimacy

This is a strong sign of cheating, but it is not 100%.  If you're no longer having sexual relations as much as you used to, or not at all, this should raise alarm bells.  Talk with your partner and see if there is a reason for this if they seem completely disinterested in the idea then they could be cheating on you.

4.  Spending more time on appearance

Did your partner never used to take so much time getting ready to go to work, or perhaps meet one of their "friends." Take note of how they're dressing and carrying themselves.  If they are spending that extra time to look good - it might not be for you.

5.  No longer telling you about their schedule

People get tend to form habits; for example, telling you when they'll be home, what they're doing tonight, what their plans for the weekend are - that sort of thing.  If your spouse normally does these things but has been quite reserved as of late, it could be they don't want you knowing about what they're doing in their own time.

6.  Constant Mood Swings

Lets face it, we're all moody once in a while.  However, if your partner is extremely moody on a constant basis - it could be for a reason.  Often, they are moody and looking for conflict and drama.  They may blow little things completely out of proportion just to start a fight.  This is often a subconscious way of deflecting guilt.

7.  Flying solo

Your partner is spending more and more time by themselves.  Things you guys used to do together are no longer a team affair.  If you used to go for a run together on Saturdays on the weekend she went alone - this could be her starting to put more and more space in between your relationship.

Remember, these signs of a cheating spouse are things to keep in mind and look out for. If you accuse someone of cheating on the basis of these signs, but have no real proof - regardless of whether they are or not, the relationship is over.

The best thing to do if you notice something "off" is to confront them and find out the reason why. Do this in a positive way. It could in fact be nothing more than accumulated stress or something you're completely unaware of.